When Doing the Right Thing Costs You a Sale

 

The true test of a financial advisor's integrity is not how much business they close, but whether they are willing to lose a sale rather than compromise what is right for the client.

In an industry driven by production targets, commissions, incentives, and recognition, doing the right thing is not always financially rewarding—at least not immediately.

Here are my four insights.

1. Not Every Client Who Needs Insurance Is Ready to Buy It

The client's need for protection does not automatically mean they can afford the solution.

A financial advisor may encounter a client who genuinely needs life insurance but is already struggling with household expenses, outstanding debts, or insufficient emergency savings.

The temptation is to emphasize the consequences of being uninsured and convince the client to find the money.

But responsible advising requires recognizing the difference between needing protection and being financially capable of sustaining it.

Sometimes, the right recommendation is to reduce the proposed coverage, consider more affordable alternatives, or postpone the purchase until the client's finances improve.

My advice: Never allow the urgency of a financial need to overshadow the reality of a client's ability to pay.

Losing a sale today is better than helping a client acquire a financial obligation they cannot sustain tomorrow.

2. Recommend What the Client Needs, Not What Pays You More

A higher commission does not make a product a better recommendation.

Two insurance products may address similar needs but differ in premiums, benefits, flexibility, and compensation to the advisor.

An advisor may earn significantly more from one product, even when the less expensive alternative is more suitable for the client.

This is where professional integrity faces a practical test.

The client generally does not know the commission structure behind every recommendation. They rely on the advisor's competence and judgment to make an appropriate choice.

That trust creates a responsibility that goes beyond salesmanship.

My advice: Be prepared to recommend the less profitable option—or even a competitor's product—when it clearly serves the client's interests better.

Your commission is the reward for providing appropriate advice. It should never become the reason behind the advice.

3. Know When to Stop Selling and Start Advising

A client's hesitation is not always an objection that needs to be overcome.

Sales training often teaches advisors to handle objections, overcome resistance, and persist until the client makes a decision.

These skills have their place. However, not every hesitation represents a sales opportunity.

A client who repeatedly expresses concerns about affordability, uncertainty, or competing financial responsibilities may be communicating something important.

An advisor focused solely on closing might interpret every concern as another obstacle to overcome.

A responsible advisor knows when further persuasion could become undue pressure.

Sometimes, the most professional response is:

"Based on what you've shared, I don't think you should commit to this plan just yet. Let's revisit your priorities and determine what you can comfortably sustain."

My advice: Recognize the difference between helping clients overcome misunderstanding and persuading them to disregard legitimate concerns.

Knowing how to close a sale is a skill.

Knowing when not to close one is professional maturity.

4. The Sale You Lose Today May Become the Trust That Sustains Your Career

Short-term production measures sales. 

Long-term success depends on relationships and reputation.

Walking away from a sale can be particularly difficult for advisors who are struggling to meet targets or earn enough commission to support their families.

The financial sacrifice is real.

However, a client who experiences an advisor's willingness to put their interests first may remember that experience.

When circumstances improve, that client may return. They may also recommend the advisor to family members or friends.

Of course, there is no guarantee that the lost sale will eventually produce business.

That is precisely why integrity matters: doing the right thing should not depend on receiving a future reward.

My advice: Build a professional practice where your recommendations remain sound even when there is no commission to be earned.

The purpose of integrity is not to generate future sales. Future business is simply one possible consequence of earning genuine trust.

My #acgadvice Principle

"A good salesperson knows how to close a sale. 

A good financial advisor knows when a sale should not be closed."

All the best my friends!!

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Why Financially Educated Clients Still Make Poor Financial Decisions

 

When Knowing What Is Right Is Not Enough to Make Us Do It

One of the greatest misconceptions about financial literacy is that people who understand money will automatically make good financial decisions.

We often assume that someone who understands budgeting, debt management, investments, and insurance will naturally make responsible financial choices.

Yet we regularly encounter educated professionals, successful businesspeople, and even financial advisors who struggle with excessive debt, inadequate savings, unnecessary spending, or poor financial planning.

Why?

Because financial decisions are not made through knowledge alone. They are also influenced by emotions, habits, social expectations, family obligations, and personal circumstances.

1. Financial Knowledge Cannot Always Overcome Emotional Decisions

People do not always make financial decisions based on what they know.

They often decide based on what they feel.

Consider a Filipino professional earning ₱100,000 monthly.

He understands the importance of budgeting, maintaining an emergency fund, and avoiding unnecessary debt.

Yet he purchases a ₱2 million vehicle through financing because he believes his professional position requires him to project an image of success.

He knows the financial implications. He understands the monthly amortization and the opportunity cost.

But the emotional satisfaction of owning the vehicle outweighs his financial judgment.

The decision is not necessarily caused by a lack of financial education. It may be driven by the desire for recognition, social acceptance, or personal achievement.

• This is why educating clients about the numbers is sometimes insufficient.
• Financial advisors need to understand the emotions influencing those numbers.

My insight: Before explaining what a client should do financially, understand why the client wants to do something different.

Financial knowledge tells us what makes sense. Emotions often determine what we actually do.

2. Knowing What to Do Is Different from Having the Discipline to Do It

Financial education creates awareness.

Financial discipline turns that awareness into consistent behavior.

Almost everyone understands the importance of saving money.

We know that spending less than we earn is necessary for financial stability. We understand that expensive debt should be managed carefully and that insurance protects against financial risks.

But understanding these principles does not automatically translate into disciplined financial behavior.

A client may attend financial-literacy seminars, read investment books, and follow financial experts online.

Yet the same client may repeatedly postpone saving, overspend during payday, or rely on credit cards to maintain a lifestyle.

Why?

Because financial improvement often requires making uncomfortable choices today for benefits that may only become apparent years later.

Immediate gratification is visible and emotionally rewarding. Long-term financial security is less tangible.

My insight: Financial advisors should go beyond teaching principles and help clients establish simple, repeatable financial habits.

Encourage automatic savings, practical spending limits, periodic financial reviews, and realistic financial commitments.

Financial freedom is rarely achieved through one brilliant financial decision. It is built through ordinary decisions repeated consistently over time.

3. Social Expectations and Family Obligations Can Override Financial Judgment

Sometimes, people make financially harmful decisions not because they lack knowledge, but because they find it difficult to disappoint others.

This is particularly relevant in the Philippine setting.

Consider a married professional who understands the importance of protecting the family's financial future.

She has established a household budget, maintains insurance coverage, and is working toward building an emergency fund.

However, she is also expected to support aging parents, assist unemployed siblings, contribute to family celebrations, and occasionally help relatives with financial emergencies.

Individually, these requests may appear reasonable.

Collectively, they can seriously undermine her family's financial stability.

She understands the consequences of repeatedly withdrawing from savings or borrowing to help relatives.

But saying no creates emotional discomfort, guilt, and the fear of being perceived as selfish.

This illustrates an important reality: financial decisions are often made within relationships, not in isolation.

My insight: Good financial advice must recognize the social and family pressures surrounding a client's financial decisions.

Help clients establish reasonable boundaries, allocate a sustainable family-support budget, and distinguish between genuine emergencies and recurring financial dependency.

Helping others is admirable. But helping without limits can eventually compromise your ability to help anyone—including your own family.

4. Financial Education Is Ineffective When It Does Not Address Real-Life Behavior

Teaching clients about financial products is not the same as helping them become financially responsible.

Traditional financial education often focuses on explaining concepts.

We teach clients about compound interest, inflation, insurance protection, investment returns, and debt management.

These are important subjects.

However, a client can understand every concept and still make poor financial decisions if the underlying behaviors remain unchanged.

For example, explaining the high cost of credit-card interest may not solve the problem if the client's spending is driven by emotional stress.

Teaching the importance of emergency savings may have limited impact if the client constantly uses savings to finance nonessential purchases.

Recommending adequate life insurance may not produce sustainable protection if the client has never developed the discipline to maintain regular financial commitments.

This is where the role of financial advisors must evolve.

Instead of asking only, "Does my client understand this financial concept?"

we should also ask, "What prevents my client from applying it?"

The answer may involve spending habits, unrealistic expectations, family obligations, income instability, or conflicting priorities.

My insight: Effective financial education should result in better financial behavior, not merely greater financial knowledge.

An advisor's responsibility is not to control the client's choices but to help clients recognize the consequences of those choices and develop practical ways to improve them.

The true measure of financial education is not how much a person knows about money, but how effectively that knowledge influences everyday financial decisions.

My #acgadvice Principle

"Financial literacy teaches us how money works. 

Financial discipline determines whether that knowledge works for us."

All the best my friends!!

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